ASIA BORYSEWICZ

What can you say about your childhood ?
I was born in a happy family, although when I was 4 years old I lost someone who was very important to me I still think I had a wonderful childhood.
How about school? Did you know how to deal with people of the same age?
It was exactly that moment when my problems started. I was totally out of educational system.
Today, people would describe me as having the ADHD syndrome, but it was not actually the whole truth. I was just an individualist full of energy. That is why, I was trying many different activities like dancing or basketball. Then, years of teenage horseplay came. Yes, that was the moment when I needed a heavy hand the most. But there was none so I was forced to learn on my own mistakes. Additionally, my mother used to spoil me. She just didn’t know how to treat me differently, but it also helped me learn about love and this is very valuable to me.

What were your first steps in your adult life?
How was your private life? I got marriage too early and I become mother too fast. Maybe because I needed a full family?
During all these life problems I lost time for myself, for my own development, to find what I really should do in my life. Winning a beauty contest led me into modeling and for the first years of my youth it used to fulfill me. Today, I would probably manage my so-called “career“ differently.
But in media you were presented as a fun – loving person. What do you think about it?
I wasn’t an angel, that’s for sure. But I was far, far away from a devil woman as media so easily described me (mostly tabloids, naturally). Those days of my life were absolutely crazy and no one knew that under that smiling or sometimes grumpy face there was a little woman hidden who dreamed about normal, quiet life and family. Yes, first of all family. Because the first one, clearly prematured, left just bitterness of disappointment and just one, truly beautiful story which I still cherish.
What was the greatest gift from the destiny that you received?
My first child. As I said, I was learning on my own mistakes, but it would be easier if i would listen to my mother who always told me „Asiu Asiu don’t touch your flower”.
Do you feel as a fulfilled woman?
Now, I think that without that youth, grumpy and stupid one, I wouldn’t be who I am today.
Today, I have what I wanted the most. Home, where my second child grows up. Pride of achievements and life wisdom of the second child. Tempestuous but stable relationship so… what more could I want?
Exactly. Don’t you really want anything more from life? Are you still developing?
A man who is not developing is a man who retreats, and I do not retreat and will not retreat from anything. Without anybody’s help I do what my heart tells me and my heart tells me a lot! I sing, I create my own worlds, which come to life without anybody’s help and I think how to live so that my life will be beautiful and deprived of shallowness. For some time I’ve preferred so-called healthy way of living, which has nothing in common with this new wave of negating everything which had been before, but why not to follow zeitgeist? I use „Miha bodytec” device, which helps me keeping good posture and improving body’s condition. I’m still under its impression, because all what I haven’t wanted to do so far now is a pleasure, and I don’t have to speak about the effects, you can see them yourself. It is also a new way to live for me which I endorse and recommend to everybody who think that their impotence is the reason of their failures.
What are you going to do in the future?
I’m going to continue developing this healthy propaganda, with music as my getaway, which is natural for me after all. I think that people, who have passion (whatever it is) will never be doomed to apathy, grayness, solitude. Ma second daughter Nikola is already 7 years old, so I can afford for time for myself, for self-fulfillment and passion. During the time of her growing up I was only with her, thanks to her I discovered the passion for cooking,
I wanted our home fire-place to be colourful, warm and our house to smell with tasty food.
What do you feel today compared to earlier years?
I feel different, more mature and wise and  I know that from now on everything I will do ….

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